An excellent post from an excellent blog:
Why Do They Keep Having Sex With Me If They’re Not Interested Or Don’t Want The Relationship I Want?
This is exactly the dating situation I was in when I was seeing the therapist. Only SHE was the one doing the rationalizing. I saw the situation clearly the entire time. I didn’t like it, and I was disappointed, but I was not confused. The therapist merely believed that I was, and then set about trying to confuse me.
That, and she was a fucking moron. Because let’s face it, men using women for sex is not exactly unheard of.